I have decided to change a lot about myself. I am letting things go that I don't really need as well as taking more things with stride and letting more roll off of my back. One more change I want to incorporate is reducing negative nellies in my life. I know you know whom I'm refering to. The people who always have something negative to say about EVERYTHING! I have recently had some very awesome things happening in my life and I have been in a good mood just about everyday. Many people know me as a chatterbox and when I'm in a good mood I am more so. I have had a lot of positives happening lately. I'm seriously tired of people always coming up with a negative to go along with my positive. Really People? Do you not have anything better to do? Instead of telling me I'm doing this wrong or reminding me of something not so great why can't the good moods just spread around and the world be happy with butterflies and rainbows coming out of peoples butts? I know thats not how the world really works but its a nice thought huh? So heres to everyone out there that follows my lowly blog. The next time someone says they are excited about this or that or seems really proud of themselves about something think before you speak. What you think might be a silly comment can indeed be a negative to their positive. Instead of reminding them of their faults remind them of their positives. Pat them on the back and tell them what a good job they are doing in whatever it is that they are doing. Sometimes people just need a little encouragment.
Much Aloha,
Amber
I am with you Amber! I wonder if some people just really don't want to be happy so they try to bring others down! You are a great person and I have always enjoyed your company! I have a friend heading to Hawaii, I hope I can get you two to meet up, she is not a negative nellie! LOL Miss you girl!
ReplyDeleteShanyn give her my info and I will help her out however I can! Maybe we will end up being great friends LOL. Do you know where they are heading?
ReplyDeleteHe is going to be on an 87, can't remember the name, she is on my FB, I will hook you two up so you can be FB friends, her name is Kelly I will have her friend you!
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